A threesome is considered by many the "holy grail" of sexual fantasies. Most people consider it almost impossible to attain. By experience I can tell you Cheap Chris Wideman Jersey , all these people are wrong. Having a threesome is relatively easy, as long as you know what you're doing!
However, having said that I have to "tell-it-as-it-is" from the beginning:
Having a threesome will always be easier if you already have a committed partner!Now, I'm not saying that if you're single you'll not be able to enjoy this heavenly pleasure! It will take a bit more effort, that's all!
There's 3 elements that will play a big role on your quest of having a threesome:
1) Stability
Most couples I know who enjoy threesome sex are in a stable relationship. Meaning Cheap Mike Condon Jersey , both partners are happy with one another, trust one another and respect one another. If deep down you're not happy in your relationship, a threesome is not going to fix it. If anything, it could end the relationship altogether!
If you're not happy, you need to fix your troubles first. Don't ever get involved in a threesome to win back your lover! Do it only because it's something that you really want to do.
Realize that for some couples Cheap Matt Duchene Jersey , this is a big step and once you take it, there's no going back, which is why you should do it for yourself. There's no placing blame and getting upset about your partner going through with it later. In other words make sure EVERYTHING in your relationship is in order before bringing a second woman into your bedroom.
2) Communication
Communication is a MUST when including another person into your sexual play. Of course the communication is important when revealing this fantasy or idea with your lover, but it's also important in planning and preparing for the big event.
Now, I'm not just talking boundaries Cheap Mark Stone Jersey , I'm talking about honest open, emotional communication with your lover. If you have any fears, let himher know. Karl (my hubby) is really understanding and loving and told me that in the entire world there was nobody better looking and that I had nothing to worry about.
During our first threesome with "our girlfriend" he was always making sure I felt loved and cared and he showed me how important I was for him and that behavior made the "fear" turn into excitement and now the three of us often get together for hot steamy nights.
So, no matter how experienced or open minded you are. Once in